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EDUCATIONAL CHALLENGES THE ART OF LIVING IN THE WORLD
Ewa Danuta Bialek
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Advice from little Eve for the adult one
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Translation: Klaudia Skutela
Color computer graphics on the cover: Ewa Przybylska
First Published in Polish, 2002 ISBN for Polish Edition 83-911206
ISBN 978-83-63428-12-9
Warsaw, 2012
Publisher: INSTITUTE OF PSYCHOSYNTHESIS
Centre of Human Balanced Development
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Eve is squatting with her hands near her face.
I ask: Why are you sad?
She answers: The marbles are pulled down.
Q.: How can marbles be pulled down?
A.: See, they are lying on the floor.
Q.: What do you want to do with them?
A.: Repaint them.
Q.: What for?
A.: To see them in a different way.
Q.: Why do you want to see them differently?
A.: To see differently what I see.
Q.: What is the link between the two: pulling down and repainting?
A.: When I change my position (way of thinking), I will see the marbles in
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Q.: What do you want to see?
A.: When I open my eyes, I do see. When I close them, I see nothing.
When I open them a little, I see a little. When I place my eyes nearer, I see little. When I keep a distance, I see more but more shallowly.
However, I want to ask her a specific question today which has bothered me for quite a long time so I ask at once.
Q.: What do you think, what can be done to make oneself feel better?
A.: Change the feeling.
Q.: How?
A.: Just like with those eyes. Change the feeling by changing the way of looking. It is adjustable. Put the bad feeling further away and pull the good one closer. And keep the good one all the time. It is so easy.
Q.: How do you apply it to change the mood?
A.: Just like other kids: I jump over.
Q.: ??????? ( I do not understand her answer)
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Eve is 6 years old.
I ask: Why are you standing back to front?
She answers: Just because I like it that way.
Q.: Why are you so stubborn?
A.: Out of need.
Q.: What is your need?
A.: To see what is at the back.
Q.: Why?
A.: I want to see the invisible.
Q.: Do you think it is better that way? What for?
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Q.: But what will it give you?
A.: I want to see it all around. See the whole.
My question of the day: How can I achieve what I need?
She answer: Notice the invisible and start doing it.
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A.: The answer comes from the invisible.
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A.: You should decipher the invisible.
Q.: How can one get what one really needs?
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Ewa Danuta Bialek ± Ph.D. in Pharmaceutical Sciences, immunologist, graduated scientist from the Academy of Medicine and the Postgraduate Medical School of Warsaw (Poland), specialized in clinical diagnosis, finished postgraduate studies in Psychology (USA), psychosynthesis training courses (IAMOP - USA) and Master Life Coaching Courses (USA). In 1997 she created the Association
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workshops on promoting health holistically, supporting new paradigm in education, especially its spiritual dimension on the base of psychosynthesis. She is the author of 130 publications (among them 22 books for self-improvement). In 2004 she has established Institute of Psychosynthesis (Centre of Supporting Human Sustainable Development) in Warsaw, Poland.
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Mrs. Ewa Bialek is a committed initiator working with a vision of peace at grassroots level in a solid and consistent way. Her track record is exemplary, her model of an integrative approach to education, which introduced human values in teaching and learning, is one whose time is now.
Janice Dolley
Mrs. Ewa Bialek is very active in promoting new ways and visions of education in contrast to the present state and rigid ones.
Henryk Skolimowski Ph.D.Phil.
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ABOUT A BOOK
Almost a theatrical dialogue with the child within, the learning mind. Very intriguing.
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